Expectations and Assumptions
Scripture Reading — Proverbs 4:7
The beginning of wisdom is this: Get wisdom. Though it cost all you have, get understanding.
I’m thankful to have learned the valuable lesson of clarifying expectations with others and reducing assumptions that often lead to misunderstandings. It’s a process rooted in wisdom and insight.
Proverbs 4:7 reminds us that wisdom begins with gaining understanding and insight. This includes actively seeking clarity in our interactions and communications with others. Rather than assuming intentions or outcomes, we should strive to clarify expectations up front.
Jumping to conclusions based on assumptions can hinder relationships and lead to unnecessary conflicts. Taking the time to communicate openly, ask questions, and listen attentively fosters understanding and promotes harmony.
Jesus, the epitome of wisdom, demonstrated the importance of clear communication in his teachings and interactions. He listened intently, asked probing questions, and offered clarity to people seeking guidance.
Practicing clarity in expectations and reducing assumptions requires humility and patience. It involves setting aside preconceived notions and approaching situations with an open mind and heart.
Heavenly Father, teach us the importance of clarity and understanding in our daily interactions. Help us to communicate openly, seek clarity in expectations, and reduce assumptions. Strengthen our relationships and promote harmony through wise communication. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
About the author — Darrell Delaney
Darrell Delaney is a cohost of ReFrame’s podcast ministry Groundwork and serves as lead chaplain with Reach the Forgotten Jail Ministry in Michigan. He considers it his life’s calling to create and facilitate life-giving environments in which people can thrive and grow in their relationship with Jesus Christ. Darrell and his wife, Kia, have three children. He enjoys spending time with family, walking, reading, and playing basketball, chess, and video games.
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