Learning From the Examples of Others
Scripture Reading — Proverbs 12:15
The way of fools seems right to them, but the wise listen to advice.
I had a friend who was a very handy repairman. One day I discovered a leak in my plumbing and didn’t know how to fix it. I went to him for advice, and he showed me how to fix the problem. His help saved me hundreds of dollars, avoiding water damage throughout my house.
Over the years, I have realized the importance of learning from others’ experiences. Observing others’ successes and mistakes can provide valuable lessons. We often think we must figure everything out on our own, but wisdom invites us to learn from others.
Proverbs helps us see that surrounding ourselves with wise mentors and friends can profoundly help in our decision making and growth.
There were times when I didn’t heed advice, and I faced hard consequences. Ignoring a mentor’s caution about a business venture, for example, led to a financial loss. Looking back, I can see how pride and stubbornness can cloud judgment, leading to avoidable mistakes. Learning from others calls for humility and openness, recognizing that we don’t have all the answers.
God places people in our lives to guide and teach us. In addition, the Bible is filled with stories of people who learned valuable lessons through their experiences—both good and bad. By observing their examples, we gain insight into living wisely and faithfully.
Lord, help us to be open to the wisdom of others. May we apply their lessons to our lives as we seek to honor you. In Jesus, Amen.
About the author — Darrell Delaney
Darrell Delaney is a pastor, leadership coach, and co-host of ReFrame’s podcast ministry Groundwork. Shaped by a story that includes early responsibility in a home marked by addiction, and later seasons of burnout and renewal, Darrell is committed to helping people return to who they are in Jesus Christ so they can live with clarity, identity, and purpose. He is the founder of Strategic Design Consultants and creator of the Lead From Wholeness™ framework, equipping values-driven leaders to build healthy rhythms, resilient teams, and mission-aligned lives. Darrell is a PhD candidate in Organizational Leadership. He and his wife, Kia, have three children. He enjoys family time, walking, reading, basketball, chess, and video games.
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