What’s the Right Choice of Friends?
Scripture Reading — Proverbs 13:20
Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.
I’m thankful to have realized the value of choosing good friends and company. Past experiences and wisdom from mentors have shown me that the people we spend time with can shape our character and outcome in significant ways.
In my younger days I often gravitated toward friends who had interests like mine—but not always the same values. In contrast, I remember a colleague who constantly encouraged me to pursue excellence and integrity. His unwavering support and positive influence spurred me to aim higher and live more faithfully. This clarified for me the importance of surrounding myself with people who uplift and inspire.
Proverbs 13:20 underscores the wisdom in choosing our companions carefully. Walking with the wise not only imparts knowledge but also fosters a life aligned with God’s principles. Conversely, keeping company with people who reject godly wisdom (“fools”) can lead to damaging consequences.
Choosing the right friends means seeking out people who exhibit qualities such as honesty, kindness, and faithfulness. These relationships can encourage spiritual growth and provide support during challenging times. It’s essential to cultivate friendships that reflect God’s love and truth, helping us grow into the people he intends us to be.
Lord, guide us to seek relationships that inspire and encourage us to live faithfully for you. Protect us from harmful influences. Help us to reflect your love and wisdom. In Jesus, Amen.
About the author — Darrell Delaney
Darrell Delaney is a pastor, leadership coach, and co-host of ReFrame’s podcast ministry Groundwork. Shaped by a story that includes early responsibility in a home marked by addiction, and later seasons of burnout and renewal, Darrell is committed to helping people return to who they are in Jesus Christ so they can live with clarity, identity, and purpose. He is the founder of Strategic Design Consultants and creator of the Lead From Wholeness™ framework, equipping values-driven leaders to build healthy rhythms, resilient teams, and mission-aligned lives. Darrell is a PhD candidate in Organizational Leadership. He and his wife, Kia, have three children. He enjoys family time, walking, reading, basketball, chess, and video games.
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